So back when I would smoke every single day including holidays, everything tied to women was easier. First of all anxiety went right out the window, you don’t care what you say when you’re stoned out of your mind. If it’s on your mind you’re going to share and many times it’s probably the dumbest shit ever, and it’s hilarious because hey you’re high! Back then I’d meet a girl and the first thing i’d ask was, do you smoke? Most times it was yes and the next thing you knew we were bonding over a joint. It was an activity, something you both had in common and it made for an event. You can’t sit in your car parked by a lake and just listen to music without smoking some weed because then what the hell are you doing. For me smoking would make everything just a bit more interesting and exciting, and I could bare the nonsense that many times came out of girls mouths. I don’t exactly know what it was that made things more vibrant but it was there. Then you quit smoking and you meet the alcoholics who instead of going to smoke a joint will tell you lets go for a drink which ends up being a 300 dollar bar tab. You’re thinking alright so she doesn’t smoke but now I have to drink my face off? It’s as if people lost the fun without some substance. Smoking also gave for a reason to meet up for women that in their mind wasn’t sexual. But we all know what’s happening after that joint is done. Nowadays I invite a girl over to come watch a movie and their immediate reaction is a movie? really? If I never smoked I probably wouldn’t have hung out and eventually banged half the girls I did. Why it’s this way well I wish I knew the full answer. The more weed you had to smoke the cooler you were. My new opinion is that if you’re the coolest guy sober guy in the room you’ve mastered the art. And what art is that?…I’ll let you figure it out.
Friendship. It’s not easy to come by a good friend. If you value friendship the way I do you’ll notice that many people don’t. No matter how you met, friendship is something that should be cherished just as much as your wife or girlfriend. Many people take friendship for granted, what they don’t realize is that there are so many people that wish they had a good friend but don’t have anyone. In my case I only have as many good friends as I do fingers. It’s also a huge misconception that you can only have good friends that you grew up with. A good friend can come at any age. People are scared of new friends because letting someone new into your life is not the easiest thing for some. I encourage new friendships because as you grow and your interests/beliefs change you will meet new people that have the same interests/beliefs. If you’ve had a best friend for some time, girlfriend or wife you have come to the conclusion that no two people on this earth will agree on everything and its irrational to believe otherwise. But, many times my friend’s have guided me and made me see things that I couldn’t. Friends will drag you to places you never imagined you’d go and then suddenly your’e there and you think to yourself wow I’m actually enjoying this . Then theres those friendships we know aren’t beneficial whatsoever but we still stick around because at the end of the day the person isn’t a bad person there just fucked up in the head so out of the kindness of my heart I try to help(druggies for instance). Many times when a friend does you a favor theres no better feeling then knowing that someone out there cares enough to go out of there way to do something kind for you. Who can you go to for advice in times of tribulation, your priest or rabbi? Uhh Ya. You can’t ever take a friend for granted and think your’e cooler then anyone. Be open to new people and you’ll see that they may have a lot to offer.
Music plays a huge role in every single persons life. Wether you know it or not your mood is very much controlled by what music you listen to. Almost everywhere you go you’ll find it. You walk into a doctors office, elevator, casino, gym, even clubs. It gets in our bones and makes us want to jump, scream, dance. It is expressions, tales, lessons in life and the truth of life. Music can change your life in many ways. You can be in the worst mood ever and play a favorite song and abracadabra! Magic. Something about silence that people aren’t comfortable with. Music dates back to 1723, I would have loved to party with those guys. It’s simple everything is more fun with music. For instance working out with music. It pumps me up and many times gives me that movie feel. The other day I was playing ping when my friend asked me if I wanted to put some music on, I said why not. Something in the music gave me a boost and did the opposite for him. Many parents don’t understand how their kids do homework with rock n’ roll on or electronic music, But a recent study concluded that no matter what type of music you listen to, the music you love most is the music you concentrate best with. It was often assumed that you needed to listen to library music like Beethoven to really get into concentration mode but it’s false. In every single movie what gives you that feeling of fear, suspense, happiness, sadness is all the music that’s chosen. A phrase I love “life is a movie without the background music.” Wouldn’t it be awesome after closing a business deal or acing that project, to walk out and have some heavy rock n’roll playing in the background. Sex, oh sex. Well if you’ve been on my site before you know I’m a big fan. There are a few types of moods during sex you can have and music will set them. Picture sex to R&B, Motown, Rock, House, Hip Hop, even Country damnit I’m sure someone out there does it. In movies most times they’ll play R&B and Motown something like Marvin Gaye- Lets get it on and I don’t blame them it gives that sexy romantic feeling(plus the title of the song says it all). Music will amplify any situation and should be enjoyed everywhere and anywhere possible, responsibly. Batteries sold separately.
So everyone thinks it’s the hottest where they live…little do they know. Just a few temperatures around America.
Phoenix, Arizona- 111 ˚F with 40% humidity
Death Valley, California- 127 ˚F with 19% humidity
Las Vegas, Nevada- 113 ˚F with 20% humidity
Tucson, Arizona- 104 ˚F with 55% humidity
Miami, Florida- 88 ˚F with 90% humidity
Every nigga a gangster until he walk through a spider web.— Katt WilIiams
Some people might as well post ‘Wants Attention’ as their Facebook status. — Will Ferrell
I saw a fat lady with a “M.O.B.” tattoo on her arm. I asked “money over b*tches?” She said “No, McDonalds over Burger King. — Martin Lawrence ®
I wish Google maps had an “Avoid Ghetto” route option— Vince Vaughn
“Hope for the best, prepare for the worst”
Talent- A special natural ability or aptitude. So there are two sides to the coin. Talent, are you born with it or can you also acquire it? Well, why not both. Firstly, being talented is something that many of us don’t even see in ourselves because we think that it’s easy or that it’s just how everyone does it. It’s often hard to see your talents until someone points them out to you, and still then it’s hard for us to accept. You can be born with a million talents but how do you know what they are? I would say you try everything that interests you even if at first it may seem foolish. Like said earlier talent is also your capability and ability (aptitude) to advance in whatever it is you want to have talent in. When people say he was born with it, no it doesn’t mean Michael Jordan came out of his moms vagina tongue out, dunking on the doctor with a paper ball. It simply means that at a young age he had talent that he discovered, and he developed it. If your talented in something wether you want to make it a career is a personal decision. Just because you don’t want to make money from it doesn’t mean you should let it go. I can speak on behalf of everyone on earth when I say that doing something your talented in is always fun. Got Talent? GO GET MORE OF IT.
Nowadays in business being nice won’t get you too far. You have to be a shark and in order to do so, your emotions must be thrown out the window. Become a beast and think only of the target at hand, that is to make as much money as possible as fast as possible. I’m not saying go out stealing social securities, but know that in order to move up the food chain sacrifices have to be made. You will learn most about yourself when you are in the lowest of lows and when you are in the highest of highs but in business it is all about controlling these feelings. Be rational, patient and aggressive. Think of making money as a game, what game did you ever play in which you didn’t want to beat everyone and come in first. That same ambition, and flame should fire you up everyday to think of new ideas, new ways to beat everyone. Be aware that you will have to knock opponents out and you will not always be perceived as “The nice guy”. Of course it may not feel good at times but do you want to be saying that could have been me? Kill or be killed. Theres a great saying, Hope for the best prepare for the worst. Money is a game and if you don’t have the balls to play the game, then good luck making it. So Let’s play then shall we?
Ok so Technology has changed the world we live in drastically good and bad, In my opinion mostly for the bad. Cell phones and internet, oh how many things have gone out the window with them. Ever been hanging out with friends and for one second the conversation dies out? Everyone pulls out their cell phones in lightening speed and suddenly it’s as if the apocalypse has come. It’s the safe place we go when we’re bored in any situation. You go to a club and it looks like a bunch of aliens trying to link to the mothership. Your’e at a club enjoying the moment, dancing at 1 a.m. with a bunch of new people you have an opportunity to meet but your’e on your phone talking to all your friends that aren’t with you? Your’e drunk and what do you do instead of unleash your horniness(if that’s a word) on someone new you text your x-girlfriend/boyfriend. Theirs even an application that will lock your contacts with some smart pre-planning to prevent you from dunk dialing X’s. You know that night you were just going to have a “few” drinks; it will transfer you to a toll-free number and you will receive a message reminding you of your wise pre-planning . Text Text Text. We have forgotten completely what it’s like to call someone, hear their voice and actually say oh my g-d or laugh out loud. When was the last time you called a new person you just met? Thought so. Try it, you’ll find that people prefer it and you’ll leave a bolder impression. Meeting someone and asking them on a date? Extinct. I will see multiple pictures of you first lying on the beach half naked, read all your specifications, hobbies, and income and then i’ll decide if i’d like to try you out. As if your purchasing something online or reading up on a new car. And then after you know everything down to their toothpaste and toilet paper brands what else is left to talk about? Maybe Life was a tad simpler once? I think so but oh well, too late now we’re screwed.
Just a few great Dub/Trap Songs you’ll enjoy!
Oh ya baby, Sex. Hot, Sweaty, Dark. Sex changes all of us and really reminds me that at the end of the day we are all still animals. Sex is a beautiful thing we would all do all day if we could(or is it just me?) Im no sexpert but Iv’e had my share of encounters. Ok so let’s be real nowadays it’s a bit more difficult then it was 40 years ago but people are still getting jiggy with it left and right. The best way to loosen a girl up is foreplay. Even if it’s a girl you just met and you have the signal to go, you don’t have to immediately go for the shocker but you can try gently caressing her first. Most men/women under estimate the power of foreplay but I’m going to tell you now this is key. It’s like driving a manual car and immediately putting it in fifth gear. Same goes for men, you have to be aroused first or good luck. Reminds me of a time when I was just beginning my sexual venture and I was in bed with a girl when things started getting hot and she was obviously ready before I was when she just jumped on my johnny and decided the time was right when Johnny wasn’t even close to being ready. (So ladies wait a bit for the man to be fully charged and ready for battle) Another thing is that most people put sex on a petal stool , women especially . Believe me when I say the second you meet someone you know you want to have sexor not, the main factor come into play following and that’s communication. Beating around the bush is just something both genders do and we do it because today’s society isn’t sexually free(Why I wished I lived in the 60′s-70′s). Take it easy when your talking about sex Guys, although women do like a straight shooter do it with class and ease, As for woman if your not into a guy you just met and want nothing from him tell him please! So he doesn’t waste his time. So many times I would have preferred a woman to tell me she doesn’t want to have sex with me especially after 45 min. of wasting my time. It’s not rocket science if you meet someone you like and you feel that tingle then go for it. Let’s be honest I can talk about sex all day but then I wouldn’t have you coming back for more…without sex life would be pretty boring, and for those of you (totally not blaming stuck up women) that aren’t having sex loosen up and have some fun Goddamn!
In life their is only one way to succeed, and that’s conquering your fears. Yes fear will creep up on you no matter how rich you are good looking you are smart you are. We are all humans for the most part. Fear is a healthy emotion we experience because it allows us to step back and choose between two options. Face it head on or retreat. Ya its probably true that most of us would much rather retreat because who wouldn’t want to stay comfortable. But thats just it, the things you’re scared are the things that will advance you. Since I love women so much ill give a simple example. Fear of talking to women is something many men face and it’s honestly a real mind fuck. As guys most times we can tell if a women is really looking at us(animal instincts) but yet you don’t do anything about it. Fear of being rejected and even being accepted creeps in. When fear creeps in any situation the most common occurrence is you begin to think excessively and contemplate for all the wrong reasons. I’ve mentioned it before the best tool that you can use is THE countdown. You train yourself to use it and you will be able to face anything(please don’t try to wrestle an alligator). One-Two-Three Go! Those who have regrets are those who were scared. I have personally never been scared in my life only because I am unique; Not! If you have that gut feeling with anything in life you follow it hardcore, and always keep moving. Alexander, Napoleon, and even Britney Spears never conquered anything by being comfortable. Live long and prosper.
If you love Rock here are some of my favorites!!